Interview Insights
Top Takeaways
- Your boss cannot promote you alone — they have to fight for you in rooms you’ll never be in. Make it easier for them by already having relationships with the people they’ll need to convince.
- At a certain point, your technical skills are just your ticket to the game — after that, it’s your relationships and who has seen you operate outside your vertical that determines who advances.
- Volunteering for a project outside your expertise is one of the highest-leverage career moves available: you gain skills, earn a sponsor outside your direct chain, and become visible to decision-makers who’ve never seen you work.
Show Notes
- Amii’s great-grandmother: a Texas schoolteacher who earned her master’s degree at 60, and the model of lifelong learning and grace under pressure she became. [02:00]
- How a friend’s offhand invitation to law school changed Amii’s entire career path — and the lesson in staying open to unexpected turns. [04:00]
- Three challenges every leader faces today: engagement fatigue on both sides, revenue and go-to-market clarity, and maintaining culture in dispersed or hybrid teams. [05:00]
- Why “you’re just not ready yet” does real harm — and how the five Promotability Index qualities give managers and employees a shared, actionable language. [09:00]
- Anno’s story: a fully certified audit executive who couldn’t get promoted — because she had built expertise in her vertical but not relationships across the organization. [12:00]
- Why volunteering for projects outside your expertise is Amii’s #1 career recommendation: it builds multi-domain visibility and earns sponsors outside your direct chain. [15:00]
- Lamar’s story: a two-time top salesman whose “lone wolf” reputation blocked promotion — and how tracking his talk time in meetings changed colleagues’ perception in six to nine months. [17:00]
- The indispensability trap: why hoarding job responsibilities feels like job security but signals an inability to lead through others and caps your advancement. [22:00]
- Deanne’s story: navigating the “too aggressive” label in Silicon Valley — and how 360 feedback from a junior employee became the turning point. [26:00]
- How to seek feedback deliberately in hybrid environments — including the “can I share something with you?” technique that primes people to actually hear what you’re about to say. [28:00]
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Expert Bio
Amii Barnard-Bahn (pronounced Aim-ee Bahr-nard Bonn)
A former Fortune Global 50 executive, Amii Barnard-Bahn is a consultant to the C-Suite and leaders at global companies like Bank of the West, Adobe and The Gap. Recognized by Forbes as one of the top coaches for legal and compliance executives, she is a member of Marshall Goldsmith’s 100 Coaches. Amii guest lectures at Stanford and UC Berkeley, is a contributor to Harvard Business Review, Fast Company and Compliance Week, and is a Fellow at the Harvard Institute of Coaching. She is the creator of The Promotability Index® and author of the companion PI Guidebook.
Amii earned her law degree from Georgetown University Law Center and her BA from Tufts. A lifelong diversity advocate, Amii testified for the successful passage of first laws in the U.S. requiring corporate boards to include women. You can receive her free Promotability Index® self-assessment.
Contact Info and Social Media for Amii Barnard-Bahn
- Primary website
- Travels from: Sacramento, CA
- Connect on: LinkedIn | Twitter/X @amiibb | Instagram @barnardbahn | Facebook | YouTube
Resources Mentioned During the Interview
Below are key people, places, books, quotes, websites and other resources that we discussed, so you can explore further.
- Marshall Goldsmith — executive coach and leadership author
- 100 Coaches — Marshall Goldsmith’s global community of top executive coaches
- Promotability Index® self-assessment — free career assessment tool by Amii Barnard-Bahn
- Laura Gassner Otting — speaker and author
- Ruth Bader Ginsburg — U.S. Supreme Court Justice, admired for her long-term change strategy and cross-aisle relationships
- Harvard Business Review — publication Amii contributes to
- Fast Company — publication Amii contributes to
- Harvard Institute of Coaching — fellowship Amii holds
